PLEASE romanticize your life, take pretty pictures, feel like the main character, light up a candle, read books, go for a walk, dance to your favorite music, buy yourself presents, do whatever you want, be happy. this is your life, don’t let anyone take it from you
i am no longer the same woman i was 2-3 years ago, and i’m not even the same woman i was just 6 months ago. in every aspect of my life, i’ve changed, and for that, i am grateful
nobody can gaslight me into thinking i'm a bad person. i have my ways and i have my days, but i'm solid and my love is real and genuine every step of the way
i think you should romanticize life a lot, dance a lot, write things by hand a lot in beautiful journals, live for the small moments like watching the stars and drinking flower tea, and make adding more magic to your life your purpose.
when Lori Harvey said "what i wanted at 21, i don't want at 25, i don't even know her anymore." i really felt that. my mindset is so different. i'm constantly growing, learning, enjoying life + happy with whatever comes with it