I’m not participating in the push and pull dynamic of relationships where if I pull back you lean forward. If we not pushing and pulling at the same time, we’re just not aligned and that’s ok.
That feeling between being grateful for what you have, knowing it’s not enough, and trying to figure out how to get from where you are to want you want to be; and don’t get me started on how deep that feeling runs!
However absence of one connection shouldn’t mean absence of all connections. There are still so many people who love you and want to see you loved and happy and thriving. Let them love you.
Normalize letting things end.
Don’t send that response.
Don’t convince them of your worth.
Don’t concern yourself with the why.
Don’t reach back out.
Feel it, release it, let it end.