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Once you learn how to shop directly from China, E.g Temù or shien your wardrobe changes completely. Call me cheap I don't care I ain't rich, I don't do fraud.😭
It's knowing what to search for.
Here's my style after making plenty of mistakes.
1. T-shirts:
Skip 100% polyester unless you're buying gym wear.
Instead, search:
• 100% Cotton
• Combed Cotton
• Heavyweight Cotton
• 240-300 GSM Cotton
• Premium Cotton
• Mercerized Cotton
The heavier the GSM, the thicker and more premium the shirt usually feels.
2. Jeans:
Denim Jeans
Temu is surprisingly good for denim if you know what to search.
Search:
• Denim Jeans
• Cotton Denim
• Raw Denim
• Selvedge Denim (if available)
• 98% Cotton + 2% Elastane
• 99% Cotton
Avoid jeans with high polyester content. The more cotton, the better they'll age and feel.
3. Body-hug clothing:
Search:
• Ribbed Knit
• Modal
• Viscose Blend
• Cotton-Spandex Blend
They hold their shape much better than cheap polyester.
4. Hoodies
Search:
• 400 GSM
• French Terry
• Cotton Fleece
• Heavyweight Hoodie
5. Chains
Search:
• 316L Stainless Steel
• Titanium Steel
• PVD Gold Plated
• Vacuum Plated
These are far more resistant to fading than ordinary fashion jewelry.
6. Earrings
Search:
• 925 Sterling Silver
• 316L Stainless Steel
• Hypoallergenic
• Moissanite (if you're buying stones)
7. Scarves
Search:
• Mulberry Silk
• Silk Blend
• Cashmere Blend
• Wool Blend
• Viscose
Avoid the shiny, thin polyester scarves if you're after a premium look.
8. Loafers
Search:
• Genuine Leather
• Cow Leather
• Full Grain Leather (rare but worth looking for)
• Rubber Outsole
9. Sneakers
Search:
• Rubber Outsole
• EVA Midsole
• Breathable Mesh
• Leather Upper
• Stitched Sole
Pictures lie a lot
The description usually tells the truth.
Here's how I shop:
1. Read the material composition before anything else.
2. Sort by Most Orders or Best Selling, not cheapest.
3. Only buy products with lots of reviews or pictures or even better when a Nigerian has purchased it before they always tell the truth.
4. Read the 1-star reviews first. They'll tell you what the seller won't.
5. Look at customer photos, not the product photos.
6. Check the weight of the product. Better quality clothing is often heavier.
7. Read the size chart. Don't assume your Nigerian size matches.
8. If the title has words like "luxury," "premium," or "designer" but the material is 100% polyester, not everything but still move on.
Your best friend isn't the product picture.
It's the material, the reviews, and the customer photos.
That's how you separate the gems from the junk.
I hope this help.
Things are to expensive for a country this poor.
@mike__fearless@viktorbensonyt@Kayweezy11 What happened to eating your cake and having it back? Marry the two. Or just marry one and impregnate one? You'd have two exceptional women in your life lol.
You see, we're wrong when we say men are polygamous by nature. Not because they aren't, but because this statement often implies that women are not polygamous too. That's not true.
Women are just as polygamous as men.
That said, you're not supposed to watch this video and call her names. You're supposed to watch it and be reminded that a woman is open to conversation with other men, no matter how stable her relationship is.
Matter of fact the more stable the relationship the more receptive she becomes to the novelty another man's attention offers.
This is often not because she's consciously set out to cheat. It's because stability, by it very nature is repetitive. Therefore Making it toxic to the female's chaotic nature.
Relationship requires order and routine. Relationships then, is women's most monotonous experience. And novelty comes in the form of another man's attention or interest.
Your girlfriend will entertain personal conversations with men. Be it at work or with customers or strangers on social media. Not with an initial plan to cheat on you but in response to novelty she sees in other men. Which, well, will lead to she cheating on you.
Women are just as polygamous as men.
The difference is that the psychological, social, and reputational consequences of acting on that impulse have historically been far greater for women than for men.
It all has to do with the mind. You have to change how you now see women.
Start by
• seeing women as sex tools
• ruthless creatures who'll always be loyal to their feelings than your sacrifices
• people who'll leave you in your lowest moments
• people who are only with you because of what you can offer them
• people who'll dump you as soon as they see a better option
• people who have nothing tangible to offer than sex
• people who'll cheat on you and still gaslight you
• people who are always talking to other men and not only you
• people who see you as a mugu and tell their friends how they intend to exploit you
• people who'll do anything to bring you down
• people who are never remorseful and lack accountability
After seeing them this way, you'll lose genuine likeness for them and will never take them seriously.
This is how you activate your nonchalant attitude.
Every China story is like: this capitalist hellhole created the elixir of life and demands people's souls in exchange for it.
But then China ruined that market by making the elixir for $5.