@dilrhubarb Also, it’s not others’ responsibility to help you be punctual. But if someone is telling you they feel disrespected, they are indeed helping you by informing you that the relationship is in danger and things will need to change if you want it to last.
@dilrhubarb Idk about tying it to shame or morality, but lateness is disrespectful and I wouldn’t continue any type of relationship, business or personal, with someone who is constantly late.
@dilrhubarb I was about to say I don’t see being disrespectful as equivalent to being immoral but I’m realizing now that I actually do. Agreeing to be somewhere at a certain time and then not doing it shows a lack of integrity, and IMO a lack of integrity is immoral.
my hot take, and I really have seen no one talking about this, is I don't think Obsession is a possession movie, I think it's a Frankenstein movie. Men who are unable to care for and take care of what they have created. Though arguably the monster had more agency than Nikki.
thought ab how cas could prob sense this intense, near-deafening longing pouring off dean’s soul (esp finding out cas is now married), then asking what his “issue” is. n dean—as he often does when hes overwhelmed by emotions he wants to bottle down—just loses the ability to speak
OBSESSION SPOILERS
the most horrifying, enraging and upsetting scene in the movie was actually when bear talks to the real nikki, she BEGS him to end her misery and instead of doing ANYTHING to help her he asks what’s so bad about being with him LIKE?
@KeturahAbigail These arrangements, in addition to exploiting the worker, serve to lower wages for nannies and au-pairs who do this for a living. They are a net-negative for society. You were exploited and contributed to the exploitation of others.
@KeturahAbigail@LeilaKtan@dumbbitchcap Does your friend want the young woman to be with the family full-time or can she find additional employment? Are meals, healthcare, etc provided? If the expectation is full-time without compensation or benefits, it’s exploitation, not doing something nice.
@KeturahAbigail@LeilaKtan@dumbbitchcap This has to be ragebait. “Gift” time to strangers? For family and friends, sure. But it’s exploitation to not pay a stranger for their efforts. Time and money are treasured resources for everyone.
the whole concept of jensen locking eyes with misha and delivering the “he’s MY fucking asexual weirdo” line… it surpasses the level of fanservice i thought we’d get with the j2m reunion. this might as well count as another destiel love confession.