one day, friends of abusers will realize that even if they grew up around them, spent a crazy amount of time with them, etc that they'll never know the side of him that HIS WOMAN experiences...
I cannot stress this enough, you have NO IDEA what other people carry with them EVERYDAY. You have NO IDEA what someone's life is like. Don't create more pain & stress to others. BE KIND. BE GENUINE Stop being so mean to people to fulfill whatever it is you don't like about you.