This shit pisses me off cuz like, imagine if 100 people have to vote on whether they should each get a million dollars, but the majority has to vote "yes" on that. Now imagine the no one gets an easy million because a bunch of people thought "nah i dont need to vote"
that "bad side" is only a part of us but it doesnt represent us. If you only judge people for the stuff you hate about them, you could never fully understand and appreciate a person for who they *truly* are.
and this goes for so many other people which is why its so hard for me now to truly hate someone. Cuz at the end of the day, we all have our issues, we all have our bad sides, we all have our reasons why we have them. Part of healing is understanding that and remembering that