Embarrassment is such a small price to pay in pursuit of human connection. I don’t want to be so scared of looking stupid that I stop telling people I miss them, stop reaching out, stop saying what I mean, or stop making the first move
selain menemukan spark hidup, semoga kamu nemuin juga spark dalam beribadah. sholat tepat waktu, gak terburu2, baca bacaan sholat dengan jelas, betah sujud di atas sajadah, dan tenangnya hatimu ketika berdoa
I came across a video by a mufti. He said, “Never assume your trials are because of your past sins. Allah does not hold grudges. That is a human trait.” Have good thoughts about Allah. Even in hardship, believe He is arranging something better. Allah is Most Merciful.
you literally have got to go do things. like you have to go new places and try activities you’ve never tried before and attempt to learn a new skill and learn and read and create and connect with people…. you’ve got to …
Genuinely heartbreaking how this young man’s life was destroyed by a racist administration hellbent on dehumanizing immigrants like this. They don’t consider the psychological toll any of this is having on people because their goal is to break them in every way imaginable.
Highkey, we need less introspection and more giving a fuck about others. People need to get over themselves. We are not the first people on earth to be tired, sad, or unfulfilled, but other people did the work and showed up. Be there tired, be there sad, be there broke, BE THERE.
I think what actually makes hijab difficult is how much of a social outlier it makes you. People genuinely treat you differently, at least in my experience, they seem more hesitant to speak and socialize with you. Its a very alienating experience.
Public transport in the UK sucks when you see a group of teenage boys who all look the same where they are disruptive and loud and unfunny in every single breath. Actual parasites living among us
Don't let a 10-minute problem consume a 24-hour day. The email was uncomfortable. The train was late. The conversation went poorly. Feel it, deal with it, then allow the rest of your life to remain intact.
no one ever wants to hang out anymore like ik everyone is tired cuz of work and school but like why can't we just sit and watch tv and make occasional commentary or smth. bring back the casual hang not everything has to be A Thing