Trump is not giving you a dividend check for $5000. They're not giving you $9,000 to stay home with your kids. They didn't give you the DOGE check. Or the tariff refund. Or $2 gas. Or cheaper groceries. Or a healthcare plan. Or 600% off your prescriptions. At some point, gullibility stops being an accident and starts being a choice.
My friend broke her neck in 3 places and is now working multiple jobs to care for her kids, but I think she can get paid for modeling! I really hope she gets discovered
Don't know who needs to hear this but if you are having a hard time right now and it seems like you can't catch a break; God is preparing you for something greater. Remember that.
Erykah Badu told us to pack light and most thought it was about luggage.
She meant: stop carrying things that aren't yours.
His shame. His insecurities. His inability to see your value. None of that is yours to carry. Pack light.
You have places to go.
If he wants to.. he’ll text.
If he wants to.. he’ll call.
If he wants to.. he’ll show up.
If he wants to.. he’ll move heaven and earth to be with you.
It’s never about the circumstances; it’s about how much he wants you.
the older I get, the more I understand what Solange meant in Cranes in the Sky. heartbreak doesn’t disappear because you stay busy. it doesn’t heal because you find someone new, book a trip, buy things, go out every weekend, or find another way to avoid sitting with yourself. healing happens when you face the pain directly, sit with the discomfort, and allow it to teach you what it came to teach you. you can distract yourself from a wound, but you can’t heal it by pretending it isn’t there.
you have to move through life and love assuming the answer is yes. assuming people want to see you, help you, hire you, hug you, love you. otherwise, every bid for connection or growth will be laced in fear and desperation. and people can smell that from a mile away.
I’m at a point in my life where as long as I know I did right by you, I’m okay with walking away when something no longer works. I used to hold on longer than I should’ve because I cared, because of history, or because I wanted things to work out. But I’ve learned you can’t keep carrying relationships by yourself. If I showed up, kept it real, and did my part, that’s enough for me. Whether it’s family, friends, whoever, I don’t force what’s no longer mutual. I just leave it where it’s at and keep moving.
Yall need to start being mean to people that are mean to YOU. Stop that bigger person shit.. Release your inner bitches or whatever Natasha Bedingfield said!
Sorry, but a partner who ruins your mental health cannot be the love of your life. Ever. I know you love them. I know you've built a future in your mind with them. I know you keep hoping they’ll change, that things will get better, that the good moments will eventually outweigh the bad.
But here's the truth you need to hear: real love doesn't destroy you. Real love doesn't leave you anxious, depressed, constantly questioning yourself, walking on eggshells, or losing pieces of who you are. That's not love, that's trauma bonding.