I think I lost my spark. I don’t talk as much, I keep to myself, and I’ve mastered the art of distance. It’s not that I’m mad or bitter. I just do not have the energy to show up the way I used to. Somewhere along the way, I slipped into this “I don’t care” phase..
Chrisean I know you’re coming down and now wanna process things 3 days later but thank you for putting a threat in writing 👍 I never asked him or nobody for money the entire time he been gone please show me a message where I did. You still asking to stay on ppl couch, yo kid using toys and furniture I bought over there after all this time. Me and him haven’t spoke before or after he got out. I know you want me to be biter because in your heart you envious that you gotta bark at the door to be let in and god opens doors for me. I would be mad to. That might explain why you was tryna put my kids on live more than you’ve posted your own kid, envy. Bitter would’ve been me saying they couldn’t go at all, I came and got my kids because an incompetent person was around without my consent or presence. But what or how I parent should never be your main concern when you should be taking notes.
For relationships to last you really have to see your partner’s point of view of things and be considerate. And be willing to grow. People can learn from their mistakes it’s all about communication and understanding .
@Slykani I think the problem is you asked and then was told no & then still did it , you should’ve just went ahead and did it since you didn’t see anything wrong , you knew it was a problem when you felt you had to ask
Be honest with yourself for once.
Are you really proud of where you are right now?
Did you become the person you swore you'd be when you were younger…
or did you let life break you into someone you don’t even recognize?
This isn’t about beating yourself up—
but if nothing changes… nothing changes.
You don’t get time back.
You don’t get another version of this life.
So either stay the same and live with regret,
or face yourself and finally become who you were meant to be.
The choice has always been yours.
So my bestfriend went through her husband's phone while he was asleep (btw she didn't find anything). But instead of arguing he bought her snacks, chocolates & flowers with a card that says "I'm sorry for not making you feel secure & nobody owns my heart but you". Dream Guy !!
Normalize having yo shit together before you meet a nigga so he can spend his money dating and courting you instead of tryna get yo poor ass out the hole.