someone said "if you don't let people experience the consequences of their actions towards u, you will remain a safe place for their worst behavior" and I couldn't agree more
I don’t associate with people who care more about their image than treating people right. Dismissing feelings, curating narratives, & playing victim isn’t integrity. If convincing outsiders you’re a good person matters more than treating people well, we have nothing in common.✍️
Ppl have a hard time rationalizing that I mean what I say. Nobody gets to treat me poorly and still get the best of me. Nobody is exempt. Nobody is special. I am the most special to me so mistreating me means you’re getting cut. Period. Idc who you are.
Condoms have been found in dogs, lizards, birds and even corpses. Yet when a “conventionally unattractive” woman speaks against rape, some men body shame her and ask, “Who would rape her?” So Dumb that u think rape happens becuz a woman is attractive enough to be desired. 🤦🏾♀️
Become someone who wastes nothing. A bad job gives you skills. A difficult person teaches you boundaries. A failed idea gives you better judgement. A random conversation gives you a new perspective. A painful year can completely change what you value. You don't need everything that happens to you to be good. The bad often teaches you to appreciate the good. Be
grateful for what goes right, learn from what goes wrong, and remember that one day the
experiences you struggled through will become the wisdom you live by.
If you’re the type of person that can resolve your own personal problems internally and don’t go spreading your business and seeking advice all over the place people will really assume you don’t have challenges
some ppl are only loyal to whoever is benefiting them at the moment. as long as you’re helping them, paying for something, opening doors, or making their life easier, they’re solid. the second you stop being useful, suddenly the loyalty disappears.
I HATE this. Regardless of if people were asked to get down or not, this is not the essence of Carnival which is inclusive of all bodies by design. Let’s not bring that rubbish please.
I salute women who have their own identity, their own style, their own opinions, and their own way of seeing the world. It's a lot of copy & paste energy out here.
unhappy ppl are dangerous as hell. they don't wanna heal, they wanna hurt. they start drama, throw shade, spread lies, & call it “keepin’ it real." nah, it's called being miserable. they mad at the world, mad at their life & your just the next target.
It’s so interesting to watch people try to prove they’re smarter than you. Especially when you were never competing or viewing yourself as superior in any category.
People really just be intimidated.
if gossip is your main form of conversation, you’re not getting access to my life. i don’t trust ppl who need somebody else’s life to keep a conversation going.