If you spend money on me (especially for my birthday) and then come back to say you were thinking of BETTER things you could’ve used the money for, I will bite you, your mummy and your daddy.
You can mock Nigerian girls all you want for lacking communication skills, but the truth is that Nigerian society is generally hostile to honest conversation.
The more Nigerians you deal with, the more you notice a pattern: people avoid saying things directly. They deflect, suppress, and sidestep difficult discussions until, seemingly out of nowhere, there's an emotional outburst.
Many of our siblings, parents, lecturers, bosses, and peers exhibit this trait to varying degrees: avoid, deflect, avoid—then suddenly, get mad.
The person you marry will affect your deen, sleep, your confidence, your decisions, and your sense of reality.
Attraction is not enough of a reason.
When someone cares about you, they care about the impact they have on you.
What to actually look for:
Taqwa in action.
People who do GRWM to work have TIME, Real time. Every time I wake up for work, I have less than 30 mins to be ready, and every second is accounted for. The day I add "good morning guys" to my morning routine is the day I'm officially unemployed.
Salary earners in Abuja have stopped saving money; they’re now saving their lives 😭
If you enter town, you’d think there’s a trekking competition going on.
As a young woman, one of the things you must never do in a professional space is to put yourself in a situation where you are embarrassing. Never opt to be the office clown. It will affect public perception of you in a way that you will not be able to track or measure.
Things Tinubu wiped out in just 3 years
1. Middle Class
2. Car dates
3. Sleeping with AC
4. Sleeping with generator on throughout the night
5. Buying Augmentin
6. The affordability of Amala Central’s food
7. Car dates