A narcissist ngga will make sure everybody OUTSIDE the house think he the realest dude alive. Always smiling, always helping folks, always tryna be the hero where people can see it. But behind closed doors? He a cold, dismissive, emotionally draining, ngga that treat the ones who love him the worst. Baby, he don’t care about being a good man… he care about LOOKING like one. That image mean way more to him than his actual character.
Reality is some people just don’t align & this was my last year letting my empathy for people keep me attached to what my discernment already rejected.
Your daughter just got her first period.
Do not tell her she is a woman now.
Tell her what estrogen does.
Tell her what progesterone does.
Tell her her cycle has four phases and each one will feel different.
Give her information. Not a new identity.
im a firm believer in taking care of the man that takes care of me, if a nigga makes sure im straight rather it be something big or small. I'm going to always make sure he knows that he's appreciated.
and if love ever finds me again, i hope it's with someone who thinks about how their actions affect me,someone who considers my feelings before making choices and values my peace as much as their own because I'm not here to survive love again, I'm here to finally live it