For me, it's cheating, lying, disrespect, and manipulation.
Nobody is perfect, and every relationship will have disagreements.
But I can't deal with someone who keeps breaking my trust and expects me to just move on like nothing happened.
I also can't tolerate emotional or physical abuse, being controlled, or being made to feel like my feelings don't matter.
If we can't have a conversation without insults, silent treatment, or turning everything into a mind game, then there's really nothing solid to build on.
Another thing is anything that steals my peace of mind.
I don't want to be in a relationship where I'm constantly anxious, overthinking, or wondering where I stand.
That kind of love is draining.
People assume I isolate myself bc I'm antisocial, but truth is, I just observe how fake everything is and choose peace over chaos. It's a whole show out here with a bunch of clowns, and real ones are rare, so i'm cool with keeping to myself.
I take everything personal cause if I did you like that you’d never talk to me. I’m big on respect & I ain’t goin for NOTHING.. I’m not tolerating NOTHING.. so don’t come around me thinking you can play with me. Respect & loyalty comes first over here. I really don’t care for love cause you could love someone and still do wrong by them but if you loyal, you wouldn’t even think about being disloyal.
my problem is when I like someone, I immediately go too hard. I'm too available, too generous, too loyal, too caring, too reliable. that's my issue, I always love the way I want to be loved in the hope that it will be the same
A ngga ain’t never hated it over here 😂 He hated the RULES & REGULATIONS. You not gone play with me. You not gone talk to me crazy. I’m not sharing you. I’m not shrinking myself to make you feel bigger. If you can’t handle a strong woman, go be with a weak one. RESPECTFULLY 🫶🏽
Maturity is realizing that a relationship can work and actually be fixed in almost any situation. It just takes the both of you to actually want it to work and correct what you're doing that is hurting your partner.
Niggas want you to prove your worth to them in order for them to treat you right. Worst mindset to have with me cuz im not auditioning for treatment i know i deserve. The minute you pursued me was the minute you knew my worth. Don't play w me.