Ngl I feel like everything that happened these last 6 months needed to happen. To allow me to see everybody ain’t for me, learning to set boundaries , learning to stop over sharing and over playing my part.
Un(fortunately) she no longer enjoys the bare minimum. She wants to be loved loudly. Take pictures randomly and show her off, be her biggest fan. Bring her flowers for no reason or occasion. Tell your friends and family about her.
She's done with that nonchalant stuff.
If you want to see the depth of someone's emotional intelligence, confront them on something they did. Gently, with love. Not from a place of blame, but from a desire to be understood and met. Then watch what they do. How they respond will tell you everything.
Can we stop acting like the only deal breaker is infidelity & cheating? let's please add gaslighting, lack of accountability/ communication, immaturity, manipulation, mental/physical abuse, financial instability, not accepting kids, aaannnnddd being a damn liar !!