Ouais c’est trop vrai :
You aren't rescuing them from their pain; you are rescuing yourself from the discomfort of witnessing a vulnerability you don't know how to hold.
According to psychology, the urge to immediately fix a partner’s or friend’s distress instead of just sitting with them in it isn't empathy; it is your own low frustration tolerance. When someone you love is hurting, and you instantly jump into problem-solving mode, offering unsolicited advice or trying to find a silver lining, you are often trying to soothe your own secondary anxiety. You aren't rescuing them from their pain; you are rescuing yourself from the discomfort of witnessing a vulnerability you don't know how to hold.
On ne peut pas me toucher, seulement me regarder
Lui, il est fort, moi je suis belle.
Lui, il est intelligent, moi je suis belle.
Lui, il travaille dur, moi je suis belle.
Et il me dit que je suis belle. экспонат, ты мой фанат Бриллиант на тысячу карат Носи мeня на руках
Трогать нeльзя, только смотрeть смотри Он сильный, я красивая Он умный, я красивая Он пашeт, я красивая И говорит, что я красивая Я экспонат, ты мой фанат Бриллиант на тысячу карат Носи мeня на руках