@Officialregha So instead of encouraging your friend to set boundaries and stop accepting food from women, you made his indiscipline his wife's problem, added to her workload and infantalised him, because he's a helpless child who cannot make his own lunches & will eat anything set before him?
I really dislike the concept of “we experience people differently” because what have I done for you to be horrible to me but kind to the next person?? 😭
Feminism doesn’t stop you from taking care of your man.
Feminism doesn’t stop you from collecting penis.
Feminism doesn’t stop you from cooking for a man.
Feminism doesn’t stop you from spending your money on a man.
You people talk about feminism like it’s a cult created to be against men, it isn’t!
STAY CLEAR of the people who don’t value the small sacrifices you make… like spending money you barely have, showing up when you’re tired, giving advice, being a listening ear, carrying their problems, or being the one who checks in first.
Another day to remember that my mum and dad separated, mum left with us and my dad removed our names as dependents from his health insurance scheme. My mum not knowing, took my convulsing sister with her last money to the hospital only to receive the rude shock of us not being beneficiaries.
She trekked home with a convulsing child on her back, funny my sister woke up and is still alive today.
A woman without her own money will suffer. PS: dont talk to me about marrying a kind man
You don’t know who to blame as how?
Even you who narrated the story, can’t you see that the man was foolish and not fit to be a husband?
She should be thanking her stars that the man returned the bride price.
This is exactly what we keep saying about inconsiderate men. Just getting soap from the kitchen while your wife is busy doing something else is a problem for you.
Talmbout “my wife doesn’t respect me”
No be only respect