dating is supposed to be fun. relationships are supposed to be fun. love is supposed to be enjoyable. don’t ever let the internet convince you that you have to suffer first to deserve a genuine connection w someone.
My toxic trait is I suffer in silence and hope someone notices I’m not myself. Growing up i had to constantly be there for others but no one was ever there for me.
So i learned to be”the helper” but never learned how to reach out or be helped.