Unhealed trauma can cause you to excuse, ignore or downplay mistreatment because you've survived worse. Healing helps you recognise your worth & raise your standards on how you should be treated. You're worthy of being respected & treated right in all interactions/relationships.
usually, people who have the biggest hearts & purest intentions are the ones who experienced the worst treatment from others. they know & understand the feeling of being rejected, betrayed, alone, left behind, all the painful treatment from other people.
Chrisean has voluntarily aborted 3 babies by Blueface she is a willing participant in the demise. He has been candidly rude & all around directly forthcoming in how he feels towards her well before a pregnancy. She’s not a victim & he’s not an abuser. They chose this life. Rest.