The most sophisticated thing you can do when someone doesn’t know what they want with you is to remain someone who knows exactly what they want with themselves.
somewhere in your 20s or 30s you’ll get the opportunity to rebuild your life after a negative loop. its very important that you see that journey through
Something I've learned the hard way: All relationships can survive mistakes, but they can't survive patterns. Repeated behavior isn't a mistake, it's a decision. Apologies lose meaning when the actions never change.
if you're not ready to consider my feelings in almost everything you do, it wont work for me. because im very considerate, i never want the person i love to feel like i dont & i never want to love someone & not feel loved. consideration is up there with loyalty if you ask me
Date someone who is curious about you. Not someone who simply finds you attractive or entertaining, but someone who wants to know the person behind the surface. Someone who reads every message twice, remembers the stories you almost forgot to tell, and notices the little things no one else does. Someone who wants to know where your scars came from, what shaped you, what makes you laugh, and what keeps you awake at night. Attraction may draw someone in, but genuine interest is what makes them stay. Find someone who wants to learn every layer of who you are.
At some point you really have to tell yourself "this is not an experience I want to keep having" and stop entertaining things that don't benefit you in any way.
that’s the question isn’t it. what WILL she do? there are no youth clubs for her to attend. food, cinema tickets, any sort of third space activity is all too expensive. their parents are underpaid, saturday jobs don’t exist any more, children have truly been abandoned by the govt