ngerasa down but i feel something big (in positive term) is waiting for me in the future jir. gatau apa dan ga kepikiran apa2 sih krn hidup gini2 aja gaada yg dibanggain. sumpah kalo beneran, aku bakal balik sih ngeqrt tweet ini
Your brain does not care if your thoughts are real. It cannot spot the truth, it only spots what you repeat. If you think something often enough, your mind believes it is a fact. To your brain, repetition is proof. Soon, it stops feeling like a thought and just feels like reality.
Once a thought gets that strong, your actions, choices, and feelings follow it. This happens all the time without you knowing. Everything you think about yourself, money, or love goes on a list. What you repeat most becomes the lens for your life, and you stop questioning it.
The easiest way to change what your brain believes is to change what you repeat. Arguing with an old thought fails, you must out-repeat it. Pick the thoughts you want and loop them, especially right before sleep and after waking, when your mind is half-asleep and accepts everything.
Do this every day. Once these new thoughts come naturally, your brain treats them as facts, and your whole life changes.
I noticed something:
People who have traveled a lot tend to judge less. Not because they became nicer, but because they've seen too many versions of what's "normal."
In one country, it's normal to eat with your hands.
In another, it's normal to stay quiet at the table.
In a third, it's normal to hug strangers.
When you've seen 30 different versions of "the right way," you stop believing yours is the only one.
Travel doesn't just teach geography.
It teaches tolerance.
you life will change the moment you stop abandoning yourself every time things get hard. most people don’t fail because they aren’t talented enough, smart enough or lucky enough. they fail because somewhere along the way they stopped believing they were capable of becoming the person they dreamed about. let me remind you, “every beautiful thing waiting for you requires a version of you that refuses to quit.”
you choose this path for a reason don’t forget that. you knew it wasn’t going to be easy, you knew people were goona say things about you, you knew the most of the world is too scared to pursue the path that you’re now pursuing but you choose to keep walking anyway. so embrace it, hold the vision a little longer my friend. one day you’ll look back and realize the hardest seasons of your life were creating the strongest version of you.
sebenernya punya plan but i keep that in mind only, gamau orang tau. cuma pengen orang ngelihat hasilnya, aku takut cuma omongan dan they put high expectation on me, sementara aku sendiri aja banyak ragunya sama diri sendiri.
iya si God’s plan itu bener2 di luar pikiran dan gabisa diprediksi samsek manusia. aku masuk kampus itu aja keinget pernah ngomong ke temen kalo ortu mau aku masuk kampus top itu tapi aku ngerasa ga capable apalagi jurusan yg aku mau gaada di sana. but here i am now...
tapi masih ada bagian dari aku bahkan sedikit dan kecil banget, yg punya harapan kalo masa depanku yg cerah itu bisa terjadi despite semua struggles dan kegelapan di mataku. i dont know when and how, only God knows.