Once You Get a Partner, How Long Do You Think You’d Wait to Lose It?
I (22F) am a virgin, and I’ve been dating my boyfriend (22M) for 8 months. He’s had multiple sexual partners before me. We haven’t had sex in any form because I’m not ready. I’m not waiting for marriage, just waiting until I feel comfortable enough not to get spooked.
It took me a month or two before I could even kiss him on the lips. The most we’ve ever done is make out shirtless while he touched my breasts. The feeling of his clothed erection against me freaks me out, and we’ve never seen each other fully naked.
How can I (21M) cope with what my GF (21F) said about our sex life?
My girlfriend said something to me a few days ago that sex with someone well-endowed was better than the sex she had with me. I am fine with that preference, as most women tend to prefer that, but I am incredibly enthusiastic and skilled at giving her oral and fingering. I make her finish very easily and as many times as she wants, however quickly she wants.
That's why this feeling is so heart-wrenching for me. How could something I do with so much effort and passion fail to achieve what someone who cares very little did? I can't really muster the urge to do any of those things for her anymore. It feels like I'm trying to compensate rather than express my care and passion for her.
How can I overcome these feelings?
I Lost My Virginity to a 27-Year-Old When I Was 15
I’d been in a relationship for six months, and I’d just turned 15. We had talked about losing our virginities to each other soon.
I didn’t want to lose my virginity to somebody inexperienced, and for some reason, I remember thinking that I didn’t want to associate my first time having sex with one particular person.
I met a 27-year-old online and told him I was 18. I lost my virginity to him and then ended up losing my virginity “again” to my boyfriend three days later.
I never told anybody this story. Nobody ever found out, and I stayed in that relationship for another year afterwards.
Is it too late to get things back to normal ?
At work, flirting started between me and a guy, and it got to the point where we started touching each other and sometimes kissing.
24(F) married for 8 years.
I have a loving husband, and I love him too. Does this count as cheating, and is it really that bad? I don't feel anything for him, it's just fooling around.
Child Protection Officer: I listened to the recording. Your son is crying and pleading with you to stop. How do you account for that?
Father: You didn't hear what led up to it. My son had just attacked me.
Child Protection Officer: He's ten years old. What could he have done to justify treating him that way?
Father: I never struck him. I was trying to keep him from running into the street.
Son: Dad, that isn't what happened.
Father: Stay out of it. You're only making this worse.
Child Protection Officer: Let him talk. What happened that night?
Son: Dad locked me in the garage because I wouldn't lie to the police.
Father: That's ridiculous!
Child Protection Officer: Lie about what?
Son: He told everyone Mom had abandoned us. She hadn't. He changed the locks and kept her from seeing me.
Father: Your mother is turning you against me!
I was always loyal to my girlfriend, even when other girls showed interest in me. I never gave her a reason to doubt me. But she kept entertaining other guys, making me feel like I was stupid for taking our relationship seriously. The worst part wasn't losing her. It was realizing that I had been protecting a relationship she was never afraid to disrespect. I'll never make the mistake of being that loyal to someone who makes me regret it.
Good night, my handsome and beautiful engagers! ❤️ I love you all so, so much. Remember to say a prayer before you go to sleep. May God watch over you all. Sweet dreams!