NOOOO
You grab her by the back of her hair firmly, pull her into you and from behind, start kissing her neck, ear, and her responsive spots while your other hand explores and works its way down. And then you take her right there.
Because at this stage you would already have had a blanket consent and boundaries discussion and a safe word so every sexual scenario don’t turn into a debate or a power struggle, ever. And this would have been established waaay before any serious relationship happened.
You’re welcome.
Nothing dries up a girl faster than asking for permission and then having a logical debate afterwards where you express “your feelings” about whatever vanilla ass “intimacy” you keep trying to sell her.
A lot of you men don’t see yourself as the prize. You don’t know it is a privilege for a girl to have access to you? It’s a privilege for a girl to know where you live? It’s a privilege for a girl to get laid by you? Many of you have a car and your own space, you roll with babes who still live with their parents and can’t afford rents not to talk of a car, some of you even chill with girls who can’t afford their own transport, you don’t know it’s a privilege for her to even roll with the big boys?
Many of these babes can’t afford to visit some of the restaurants you take them to, and even when they go to those restaurants alone, they know what they order for, it’s only when they are with you that they want to try new expensive things out. You don’t know it’s a privilege to know you?
You don’t rate yourself at all.
being married is funny because you'll be chilling, having a bowl of cereal, and your wife will say
i hate these bowls, don't you?
and you'll shrug becuase you don't care and she'll say
i do, they've bothered me for a while now. we need new bowls.
and you'll shrug again because you have honestly, not once, ever considered the bowls at all
then a few days later there will be all new bowls in the kitchen.
and you'll be eating the same cereal in a different bowl, chilling, and she'll say
i love these new bowls
and you'll shrug again because you still don't care but she's happier and the cereal is still good and you didn't do anything at all
lo que mas odio de la pobreza es la adicción a vivir en la mala vibra, aman las noticias trágicas, los chismes, las caidas, los fracasos de los demás, con eso se entretienen, al rico tu le cuenta algo malo y te cambia el tema en 2 segundos
BIG DICK ENERGY
> Believes he's the Chosen one in his family
> Always working on his purpose
> Doesn't take women seriously
> Listens more than he talks
> Doesn't argue with women or bitch about them
> Doesn't seek to dominate others
> Always positive & optimistic about life
> Takes 100% responsibility of his life. Blames no one!
> Always on the path of self-improvement
Women are so good at determining which man is more dominant in any interaction between men that I must recommend you don’t bring her around your friends unless you’re either “the leader” or until she’s so obsessed with you she’s delusional
Before I bought my first Apple phone when it became inevitable that I had one, I made a decision never to buy one. I will tell you why.
But first, why did I eventually get one? You see, being on the media side of events and artist management you are always going to be in spaces where everyone uses an iPhone, and the fastest way to share media (the media materials you need to work with on the go) is via AirDrop. So I eventually got one.
But before then, I said I was never going to get one. Why? That was my own way of rebelling against the classism Dickson talks about here. People would walk up to me for no reason and go, “Baba, you don pass this Android.” They had no other reason to push me to buy an iPhone other than their unsolicited opinion about my status. It always annoyed me. Like, “na you go tell me wetin I don pass, abi you dey craze.” My status and its associated symbols are mine to decide, not yours. You cannot be embarrassed on my behalf. I no send you market.
Yeah. Classism is real here. Stupid one o.
Be authentic.
Best way to raise your vibration ain’t pretending to love everyone and acting positive all day.
It’s being real as fuck.
Say what you mean. Move how you actually feel. Stop performing for people.
That’s high frequency.
Not love.
i saw someone say that instead of breathing air upwards into your nostrils you should breathe into your face because when you look at the skull there’s a horizontal hole. by doing this it automatically triggers diaphragmatic breathing it’s crazy. ive been a breathcel