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@Patrick112244 @ChiDeviDasi @itsyaminah By this statistic every kid under the age of 21 is an alcoholic drunk. Having a drink before your 21 doesn’t make them have any less or more potential to be a drunk. It’s how they’re raised, traumas they have and their personality. Your statement is utter bullshit

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@KimHamblin01 @WestonMantooth @Rothmus I thought they have no problem opening their wallets for that😂

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@kellythe4th @awkwayla @galaxyofmoses @amandabb__ So no prof pic and you think you’re better than everyone else? Def explains why your on x like the ‘losers’. Your def one yourself in disguise especially with that pinned post, pathetic 😂😂

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@TheEncircler @BlakeH49792 @FloridadadD Jfc. This is over a fucking hair style. Do you really wake up in the morning and say “oh I’m gunna style it like this bc women will love this!” No you don’t, you do your hair the way YOU like it. Why is this such a hard concept for you to grasp?

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@TheEncircler @BlakeH49792 @FloridadadD The point is the fact tht literally no one makes life decisions and choices purely based off the other genders opinions. Literally no one. But for some reason we’re only talking about women

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@TheEncircler @BeuatiflyBersrk @BlakeH49792 @FloridadadD The dating scene. Key word. Do you really think with your brain that women doing that shit are in it and competing? Do you really think at all that women compete for men? SMH We know what we’re worth and it’s a lot more than men these days can offer.

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@FischerKing64 I like how opinions got mixed up with facts in this thread.

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@JethroMaccabee @FischerKing64 No we just don’t care💜

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@Nach9636 @realDonaldTrump Name calling automatically makes me assume this was created by a 14 yr old who doesn’t bother to learn 🤷🏻‍♀️

[Seth Troutt @Seth_Troutt]

"My wife hates the sight of my face lately. She's all moody and distant and hormonal."

Today in the sauna a dude in his 40s said this. He's been married 20+ years.

"How long has that been going on?" I asked.
"About a month," he responded.

I asked, "so what are you going to do about it?"

"Do about it? Wait it out like always. Spend extra time in the gym. Don't poke the bear."

"Sounds like a lame strategy to me, if you can even call it a strategy."

He said, "Oh yeah? You have a better idea?"

"Yeah. When people are withdrawing, it's usually because they feel unlovely or unloveable. It's an avoidant attachment style. You withdrawing right back is validating her concern. Avoidant attachment styles rear their heads in midlife as we age and aren't as obviously youthful as we once were. If you both are committed to avoiding each other except for when you both happen to be in a good mood, you'll end up divorced. She's thinking to herself, potentially unconsciously, "will he fight for me when I'm at my worst?" And right now you're answering loud and clear: "No, I won't." Take her on a date, tell her you don't like how things are going, and ask her what you can do to better prove to her that you don't just love her, but like her."

He bought in.

Husbands have a lot of power. Pouting about your wife to other guys is beta behavior. Take a risk and set the tone in your marriage. Cherish and nourish your wife (Ephesians 5:29).

Friends have a lot of power. Don't let the men in your life avoid their responsibility for setting the tone in their marriages. The cliche is true: "Iron sharpens Iron" (Proverbs 27:17).

[Nicolas Cole 🚢👻 @Nicolascole77]

Remind yourself often the algorithm you're staring at right now isn't a reflection of "everything." It's a very small sample size. And within that small sample, everything seems louder & over-saturated than it is. Pull back. There's a bigger picture, and plenty to go around.

[elle ✨ @heyellehogan]

I love practicing the art of leaving conversations.

I do this every week at the walk I’ve hosted 111 times, and it gets easier with every rep. I used to have shaky boundaries and hold myself hostage in conversations I didn’t want to be in. No more.

When I hear my intuition whisper “It’s time to leave,” I float away. With love and a smile.

I have a personal rule: Leave every conversation better than you found it.

This makes every moment at the walk fun for me, because I float into conversations like a fairy determined to sprinkle a little love, light, or insight into our adventure on the trail. Sometimes I do this by locking into the person speaking, listening intently, and asking juicy questions. Other times, I’m co-creating wisdom nuggets or offering advice straight from the heart.

I trust myself to choose what feels right, because I’m holding the game controller of my life 24/7. Every one of these conversations — good, bad, or awkward — lasts as long as I allow it to. I can lovingly exit the dialogue box at any time and keep moving forward in my quest. The words “lovingly exit” only became true when I started acting on my intuition’s whispers quickly, instead of waiting and wishing the other person would read my mind and walk away first.

I used to blame people for being negative, lowering my mood, or wasting my time. But now, after a lot of practice, I take full responsibility whenever I let them. Because no one can drain your energy without your consent.

I realized the resentment I had towards other people for lowering my mood, was actually the resentment I had towards myself for not walking away.

Now, I walk away. Quickly, effortlessly, with a big smile on my face and no dark cloud of resentment brewing in my heart. I’m learning how to maintain my energy, honor my desires quickly, and keep my heart open no matter the environment. Every walk, every week, gives me the chance to practice.

Because I’m on a mission to meet every person with love, no matter how they meet me.

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@royal_bobby24 @PicturesFoIder You must be terrible at social ques