i have zero tolerance for bigotry here. Bring that garbage into my mentions and I won't just call you outβI'll make you regret ever interacting with me. Respect the boundary or stay out of my replies. The choice is yours to make. π€·πΎββοΈπ
@DilfLoverzzzz@JoshMooreXXX If it's 'obviously real,' then don't claim people are 'literally making it up' when they talk about it. Words have meaningβif you meant 'don't judge these specific guys,' say that next time instead of dismissing a systemic issue
@DilfLoverzzzz@JoshMooreXXX Clarifying your intent is fine, but shifting your story after the fact isn't. You said people 'literally make that up'βthat's what was addressed. Stand by the claim or retract it, but the original tweet speaks for itself ππ΅πΎββοΈ
@DilfLoverzzzz@JoshMooreXXX So now you admit the rejection and exclusion are real, but your issue is how people react to it? That is a total shift from calling it "made up." You keep changing your argument every time your previous points gets debunked π
@DilfLoverzzzz@JoshMooreXXX Nobody claimed fit gay men can't be sweet. You got called challenged for saying people "literally made up" the exclusion they experience from that specific subculture. Individual kindness does not erase broader community issues lying underneath ππ΅πΎββοΈ
@DilfLoverzzzz@JoshMooreXXX Thats a fascinating pivot. Nobody is arguing that people should be attacked. You got called out for calling systemic exclusion "made up" and generalizing about people's motives. Don't pretend that's all you said. π΅πΎββοΈπ€·πΎββοΈ
@DilfLoverzzzz@JoshMooreXXX Conveniently leaving out the second half of your own tweet. You literally wrote people assume things to feel better about being excluded from "more masc and fit parts of the LGBTQ." That is talking about a whole demographic, not just one photo π€·πΎββοΈπ΅πΎββοΈ
@DilfLoverzzzz@JoshMooreXXX You complained about people projecting "problems as a whole in the community." Don't make sweeping generalizations and then pretend you were "only talking about one photo" the second you get challenged. π€·πΎββοΈπ
@DilfLoverzzzz@JoshMooreXXX Retreating to "I only meant this specific situation" doesn't work when your first tweet explicitly dismissed people's past experiences as baseless assumptions. Calling real-world experience "bias" just to avoid acknowledging a widespread documented trend . π€·πΎββοΈπ
@DilfLoverzzzz@JoshMooreXXX You claimed you weren't talking about the whole community, but your first tweet dismissed an entire group's lived experience as "making it up."
β"No fats, no fems" was hardcoded into app culture for years. Denying a documented trend of body shaming won't erase the damage.
Gay culture has a complicated relationship with authenticity: we encourage people to be themselves, then develop elaborate social penalties for being the wrong kind of gay.