You should be paying for things that better your dommes life to keep her in her divine feminine energy so she can focus on being her best self. Examples:
- Nail & hair appointments
- Beauty treatments
- Gym membership
- Fitness classes
- Massages
- Travel expenses
i honestly can’t wrap my head around it. if God put this much order into the smallest parts of creation, what makes you think He would leave you completely on your own?