I have told no one in my life about this channel, & haven't revealed my identity online. Ergo this content not is directed @ anyone. #Narcissism#Triangulation
@TrustJesusAlone@JacklenaB Exactly.
That’s why I created this identity masked persona to protect both the guilty and the innocent.
The only way anyone would know it is me (and subsequently who I refer to) is if they intentionally came searching for me using illegal and violating methods.
@Stopworkplacebu OMG YES!
It's like you know we're all live the same human experience as you right? 🤭
So you know WE know what we'd do re things we don't like riight?😶
So you know you're only fooling yourself riiiight? 🙄
@nate_postlethwt I tell people something similar when they ask about my going no contant from my nMom:
Nobody goes no contact from a healthy relationship or after a single instance of ( x )
@nate_postlethwt Facts.
However as Dr Ramani once put it healing sometimes means being okay with people not being okay with us.
https://t.co/4mIVX5etMR
@Stopworkplacebu FACTS.
Sea-lioning/socratic questioning as a weapon:
It is where someone feigns curiosity/asks endless Q’s—not out of genuine interest but to be dismissive, exhaust, distract, or control the convo.
On the surface it seems reasonable while actually being a subtle power play.
@nate_postlethwt Don’t ask how could you feel that way about your ( x ); ask what would your own would have had to have been like (and for how long) in order for you to feel the same.
@Stopworkplacebu Take it as free information
You know one/some of whom they’ve been manipulating
You get a glimpse at part of what is driving their insecurity
@Stopworkplacebu An example of 1 , I call setting you up for the fall:
Say you speak a bit of ( x ) language
They go around telling people “you said you were fluent but you aren’t”—you did no such thing.
You can tell who’s bought into it as they usually try to be the one that “catches you out”
@lauralynn1955@Stopworkplacebu 1. Remember that (for most things) they can’t actually take it from you but trick you into giving it up.
2. Do ( x ) harder, be more ( y ), not at all for their sake but because if they envy it there is a reason and it not only is it good for you, but it is likely phenomenal.