@bwwillett63@andreajack58607@SassySouthBlond That means there are still many people from both genders who prioritized their family. And that also meant that this kind of thing depends on the individuals and not their gender.
@bwwillett63@andreajack58607@SassySouthBlond I'm not sure how this turns out to be socialist jealousy or being angry that other get paid? That seems ootπ . But regarding your later point, woman had always support their family first though, even from centuries ago.
@bwwillett63@andreajack58607@SassySouthBlond I'm not sure how that is the solution..? That does not even sounds relevant to the previous sentence. I'm also unsure how to reply if you just said both are wrong without giving reasons. I mean, I can freely say you are wrong but this is not gonna be a really productive argument
@bwwillett63@andreajack58607@SassySouthBlond I mean, the other stuff that many younger woman (as well as man) faces is stuff that is a necessity to life: groceries, transports, house..
@bwwillett63@andreajack58607@SassySouthBlond If for example, every working woman is replaced by unemployed man tomorrow,this situation won't change. The root of this isn't bcs woman enter the workforce but from corpo that funneled their profits only to the top rather than redistributing as higher wages for average workers
@bwwillett63@andreajack58607@SassySouthBlond In fact, one of my friend cried bcs she loves children, she wanted to have a child of her own or even adopt one! But she can't bring it to themselves to raise them with how the world functions rn where even two income household aren't enough.
@bwwillett63@andreajack58607@SassySouthBlond We have enough human as of right now and we won't get extinct anytime soon. And if you asked woman who choose to not have children, the reason isn't that they don't want it but instead they know they couldn't raise one properly due to financial reason.
@bwwillett63@megevhan@SassySouthBlond *last century, sorry. More and more people are raising their children in a much healthier way, leading them to generally be an average good adult. The fact there are LESS is exactly bcuz more people understand the responsibility of raising a children with a good quality.
@bwwillett63@megevhan@SassySouthBlond Quantity isn't the measure, quality is. Although the world is still shitty place to live, the fact is that crime rates does decrease, especially if we compare it to the last decades.
@bwwillett63@megevhan@SassySouthBlond The modern rules isn't fully implemented though? I mean a lot of people still holding to traditional values just like you.
@bwwillett63@andreajack58607@SassySouthBlond Good partner (both man and woman) isn't the one that dedicated all their time to *lead* (whatever that means) but the one that supports, being equal, understanding, and are down to learn and do things.. together! Because *together* is what relationship is about in the end.
@bwwillett63@andreajack58607@SassySouthBlond Between them, there is no designated role to lead *all* the times but it's more like being side by side, supporting each other bcuz everyone has their own strengths and weaknesses, right? I also (luckily) happened to be in one as well and it feels very fulfilling.
@bwwillett63@megevhan@SassySouthBlond Problems that I brought up before is one that exist as a result of affirming or accepting only traditional roles. What I meant to bring up is how often that kind of power imbalance is abused and how modern gender roles are trying to lessen that chance of happening.
@bwwillett63@megevhan@SassySouthBlond Yeah... But we're not talking about general relationship problem though?? Otherwise why would you said, again I quote, "It is only when women change the agreement on the traditional roles did problems start with my generation."?