@muthuwu I don't know what is currently happening in Tamil cinema. More and more regressive and misogynistic. Especially the way these movies are misleading the audience is really concerning. Dude, AAP, Youth, LIK or recently the one incel movie from Dhanushs nephew...
people be asking why she posted the video instead of filing a complaint. by the same logic, why did he take his life instead of facing it legally if he hadn’t done anything wrong?
Medical misogyny is so real. Yesterday my sister noticed her period pain was more intense than usual. So we went to the hospital. In the emergency room, there was a man with slight abdominal pain who was given Percoset and immediately sent his test to the laboratory, and when the doctor came to check on my sister, he said, “It’s just your normal period pain & symptoms” then gave her Ibuprofen and sent us home…. Today her symptoms got worse, and we went again, and guess what, it was an ovarian cyst!...they conducted an ultrasound on my request! .....a man with abdominal pain is more serious to them apparently and A woman’s pain is normalized like women are supposed to suffer!
If men had to go through periods, a week’s leave every month would be non-negotiable, and sanitary napkins would be stocked everywhere from mechanic shops to temples, mounted on walls like fire extinguishers 🙃
Every species instinctively protects its own kind when in danger, except these self-proclaimed dog lovers. Funny how stray dogs seem to have more sense than these so-called animal lovers who claims to be one.
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India must be free of stray dogs. If that upsets you, go ahead, adopt a few and keep them inside your home. No parent should have to risk their child’s life, and no one should lose a loved one just to protect stray dogs roaming the streets.
The men who say ‘women dress for men and fight over them out of jealousy’ are the same ones who claim women would claw each other apart over beauty… in a world where they apparently wish men didn’t exist. Makes perfect sense. 🙄
@perfect_odd_num Yes, it can be even worse if they are introverted and struggle to make friends, often ending up with their parents as their only companions.
Well explained. It's not only about the child facing all the struggles alone—having a sibling is one of the major factors in character building and gaining confidence from childhood. Most of the single children I’ve seen tend to be quite adamant about simple things and ...
Young people who want to become parents:
Have more than one child please.
It's not fair on the single child to look after the needs of the elderly parents. They get burnt out. I see this so often in my clinic and around me in society.
Why should the child look after the parents' needs alone when the parents have been selfish to have only one child? How much can one child bear?
And no, this is not about finances. Infact majority of people in the lower socio-economic group have more than one child. It's the upper middle class who stop at one child.
And if something happens to the parents prematurely, then that single child is left alone in the world, with no family. He/She is left an orphan. Even though, he may be an adult by then, he is still an orphan. And this will hit that adult child hard.
Heard of a news today, where both the parents who were around 55-60 years old died within 2 months of each other last year, and their only child, a son around 25 years old, also died tragically yesterday. He was apparently unwell since the death of his parents.
Read about Yash Birla, the popular Birla scion. Atleast here, the extended family rallied around him and he had a girlfriend whom he married. Read about what his wife has to say about the painful ordeal in their first couple of years of married life. He recovered, not everyone can be like Yash Birla.
In today's day and age, one isn't having such close ties with extended family members.
If a couple decides to have only one child, then the couple should and must involve the extended family, how much ever differences they may have with their extended family. Their only child should get the love and affection of their uncles, aunts and his/her cousins, especially the cousins.
Why should that child suffer just because parents don't see eye to eye with their extended family?? Then have, another child.
Because once the parents die, their only child will have the comfort of his cousins, with whom he has beautiful sibling bond with.
And life is livable again.
It's takes a village to raise a child. And a child should live in that village, this will give him security and confidence to carry out with life. No child (including an young adult child) should live alone.
Their parents failed to teach them the concept of sharing or forgiving things in life.
This behavior often extends into their own parenting. Having a competitive nature in any relationship is not a good trait for leading a peaceful life.
Not a complaint, but rather an observation. These pampered kids often find it difficult to cope with society due to their attitude. Sadly, their ignorance is often misjudged as cunning or selfish.