“Because love is not always about smiles, butterflies and good times.
True love only appears through hard tough times, through the never giving up no matter how things going.
Its more like “i saw your bad sides and i’m still choosing you for a lifetime.”
Very overwhelmed and it sucks that life is going to be this way til second week of April. Can’t focus on one or a few things, literally need to juggle twenty different things. I just need the strength to get through these two months 🙏
Okay, felt a bit better typing this down.
The parentified daughter had to be the responsible and strong one because no one else was. She wants someone to lift her load, to care about what she feels, and to be a shoulder for her to cry on instead of keeping it together.
In your relationships, create the habit of asking people how they prefer to be talked to:
-How do you prefer to be approached when upset?
-How do you communicate when triggered?
-How do you like for people to tell you when something you did hurt them?
-What makes you feel heard?
Feeling a lot of different emotions lately. Having a hard time processing them too. Do I shut it all out or do I let myself feel it all? Very confused on what I need to do.