how do i explain to someone that my parents are strict, but not that strict. like they’ll let me go out, but they also won’t, like i do have freedom, but i also don’t. i can do what i want, but i also can’t. i can get what i want, but i also can’t. i need a word for this concept
the secret to being a private person is to overshare dumb shit so people think you are an open book but then not tell them any of the important details of your life.