Big Fat Boy

wtfff am i doing? idk

[Big Fat Boy @shiny68842]

@MaltyBara @dirtygayteenfag The picture of the tweet you sent just making a tweet on the internet about a random fantasy, not going up to a real guy in real life and being like "ooo yeah you gonna fuck me". You're a bara artist, right? You gonna start drawing hetero bara because some girls want you to?

[Big Fat Boy @shiny68842]

@Ghorstie @gowonsnow I really wish I knew. I'm really sad about how many people are so angry over a girl who enjoys bara content. That directly implies she's okay with homosexuality, she's our friend, not our enemy.

[Big Fat Boy @shiny68842]

@thatfurrygoon @KuroTheCamb @Ghorstie @gowonsnow I think that anyone is going to be upset for being attacked for something they enjoy. And the fact that we know how it feels means we should be MORE ashamed when we do that to other people.

[Big Fat Boy @shiny68842]

@Miloticshiny1 @gowonsnow An LGBT club is different than a genre of porn. You go there to meet people who are like you. You get a bara magazine because you think that kind of guy is hot. These are not equal problems.

[Big Fat Boy @shiny68842]

@MephWanderer @gowonsnow You're completely right, and I don't see it as a bad thing. I'm kind of surprised at how many people do.

[Big Fat Boy @shiny68842]

@RRizx11342 @incinaddled That really matters to you, does it? For me, I'm secure in myself. I don't need a 'space'. I enjoy the content I do and don't care about who else does. If you think you're going to stop people who 'don't belong' from enjoying our content, you're wrong. They'll just do it quietly.

[Big Fat Boy @shiny68842]

@RRizx11342 @dirtygayteenfag Even if she did, part of the reason we are allowed to get married and are accepted as we are, are our female allies who like to fantasize about gay men. I don't see how that's harmful. Pitchforks over someone straight who enjoys gay content are only going to make people hate us.

[Big Fat Boy @shiny68842]

@YourGodIsOn You and I are different people bestie, not a bad thing.

[Big Fat Boy @shiny68842]

@MaltyBara @dirtygayteenfag Uhhh... but they... can't do that. They don't have power of you being gay. So I don't see why it matters. And I can see plenty of reasons for a girl to "invade" the genre - because they like bara men and find them hot..? That seems like the most obvious reason to do that...

[Big Fat Boy @shiny68842]

@literallymej I hope you do too, sending good vibes your way, take care of yourself until things get better

[Big Fat Boy @shiny68842]

@MikiThisWay Even the people who use "twink" as a slur are unironically normalizing us by incorporating our language into their vocabulary. That is a good thing - once we are normal, then acceptance for us is easier, and life is less dangerous for us.

[Big Fat Boy @shiny68842]

@MikiThisWay Maybe it is hard for me to identify with everyone's frustration towards this issue because I genuinely have little care for what some ignorant person has to say to me or about me. A lot of people are stupid, if they didn't use "twink", they'd just use "sissy" like they used to.

[Big Fat Boy @shiny68842]

@dirtygayteenfag My works are made for other gay men too, they are made to express my kinks, fetishes, and desires. But I see no point in taking umbrage with someone who isn't my intended audience enjoying my works.

[Big Fat Boy @shiny68842]

@dirtygayteenfag I suppose, as another gay man who is a NSFW artist, that I just don't see why it matters if girls enjoy bara content. If she made a mistake and calls him bara because he's big and beefy, what's the problem? I genuinely want to understand.

[Big Fat Boy @shiny68842]

@IslandboyPlayz But I'm not against others being poly, so maybe it could be argued this post isn't even for someone like me. I do think it's a worthy point to reflect on, though.

[Big Fat Boy @shiny68842]

@IslandboyPlayz Personally, I wouldn't say I "hate" polyamorous relationships, but as a 35 year old man with the knowledge of how much work it is just to maintain one partner, having to maintain more than one partner seems nightmarish to me. It takes a kind of personality I definitely don't have

[Big Fat Boy @shiny68842]

@turningmystile I think that some people see their fluid sexuality as a sign that they are flawed because that's what they're taught and that's what everyone they love believes, so they wear the mask and pretend like things are rigid to hide how they really feel.

[Big Fat Boy @shiny68842]

@ThabigRexy It's a sign of your strong heart that you care for even those who did you wrong. I would suggest you be proud that you are a kind, caring person instead of being mad.

[Big Fat Boy @shiny68842]

@99Xlenda It's difficult on both sides of the coin, I've been on both sides. Pulling away from someone, acting like everything is normal because you feel like there's no point in trying to explain why you're hurt again, letting things fade to nothing, it is a sad feeling.

[Big Fat Boy @shiny68842]

@Aduradara61049 I'm not sure how someone could even do that. If I break up with someone I love, the last thing I want to do is have sex.