I cannot change the world but I can change the lives of those around me starting with my family. I can speak love and words of affirmation into them. I can teach them to be better and do better. Hate cannot win!
Don’t make them abandon their values and boundaries to receive your love. If you can’t commit, if you want to sleep around, if you want to change who you are because they aren’t enough, just leave them alone. Don’t promise them the world. They are better off without you!