This uncertainty is why I find “must be financially stable” off when looking for a partner. Especially those matchmaking dms.
There’s every tendency the union will go down if the finances become unstable. Even if you want stability, mentioning it is a red flag. Oftentimes it indicates that’s the primary reason you want the union. The husband cannot be exempted in future from the ruthlessness filter.
Until we ladies tell ourselves the truth, we will keep repeating the same cycle of disappointment & regret.
Every lady have once dated a man who genuinely loved them & treat them better, but they fumbled him because she thinks there are lots of men in her dm, only to regret it later.
I have counseled lots of ladies and they all have one confession in common. The fumbled a good man they once dated and the rest of men they encountered were full of crap.
“How can you tell me that you can't allow your girlfriend to stay with you for more than two weeks because you will be bored and tired? How will you get married?” — Lady asks men
@LyndaUdoji@ishiguzochris She doesn't need a psychiatrist, she needs him to do the needful. His inability to stop this woman's constant harassment shows complicity.
An intentional man who takes care of his girlfriend, found out that she attended a “pyjamas night” with another man.
He also discovered that she is in a matchmaking group
As a guy, if your friend is scared of his babe or wife, never tell him anything confidential. CUT HIM OFF!
A man who has to run home at 7pm so madam no go vex. A man who has to crosscheck every decision with his wife so she doesn't vex and veto it. A man who doesnt call the shot in his house. A man who has to relay every conversation with the boys with his wife. AVOID!!!
She is destroying him and he will destroy you by exposing every conversation to her for her validation.