It's actually such a relief to be free of this stan mindset... like, I really was working for FREE for millionaires/billionaires, listening to songs I didn't actually like & losing sleep all for nothing...🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️
This is what “women’s love language is not having to ask” actually means btw
It doesn’t keeping score on chores, it means going out of your way to be kind and anticipate each other’s needs
Relational, not transactional