According to attachment theory, genuine love is reflected in how someone responds to your pain, not just your presence. When someone truly values your wellbeing, their deepest fear isn't losing access to you - it's causing you harm. But when someone only loves what you provide for them they fear losing their supply, not hurting your heart. This subtle difference reveals everything about whether you're loved for who you are or what you give. Notice which one keeps them awake at night.
انا زعلت من زوجي ورحت اهلي وجلست سنة وهو يكابر وانا أكابر وبيننا أطفال وفي يوم جتني رسالة نصية تبرع بأسمي اهداء منه وبعد يومين أتصل تصالحنا ورجعنا وبعد فترة سألني ايش حنن قلبي عليه قلت تبرعك عني قال متى! انا ما تبرعت عنك بشي واصلا انتي متبرعه عني عشان هيك اتصلت وبادرت! قلت له مستحيل انا ما تبرع لك اصلا لما فهمنا السالفة طلع في احد مسويها فينا عشان نرجع لبعض ويصلح بيننا وطلعت اخته الصغيرة 🥺
Sebetulnya yg bombastis dari riset ini bukan cuma perempuan hanya akan menstruasi 4x setahun, tapi juga bisa hamil di usia matang karena stok telurnya msh banyak. Jam biologis ga lagi jadi alat untuk menakut2i perempuan agar buru2 menikah dgn siapapun semata agar msh bisa hamil.
Sukanya ayat dia 🥺🥺
"When a man starts loving a woman, his work becomes more important to him. But when a woman starts loving her man, her work becomes less important to her. Because he is preparing to provide and she is preparing to build a home"
"Bagai pinang dibelah sembarangan"
"Tak ada rotan, manoj punjabi"
"U look so prett"
"4 sehat 5 sempurna, 6 nilai sahroni, 7 nya ada 2, 8 gak ada apalagi 9”
"U look so shy, shy tone"
"Soal kalah, dia menang"
"Di aku gak cocok, aku orangnya gampang meninggoy”
My ex was cheating on me with his “bestie.” I caught them and immediately turned around and went home. I told myself I’d never speak to him again.
Two days passed and he didn’t reach out to apologize or say anything. I couldn’t cope with not talking to him, so on the third day, I went to his house to beg him and ask him to stop cheating on me. But when I got there, I caught them again.
This time, I didn’t go home. I went outside, sat on the floor, and cried like a baby. He didn’t even come out to check on me. I was there for more than three hours. Later that evening, I left and finally made up my mind never to speak to him again.
Men are ruthless when they don’t love you anymore.
Maturing is realizing that the best reassurance you can give your person in a relationship comes through conversation. When you're going through tough times, shutting down or going quiet only makes them feel unsure. But when you choose to talk things through and work it out together, it helps them feel safe, seen, and wanted.