Lau: So here’s a hanfu for you, Little Phantomhive
Ciel: …that looks awfully effeminate
Lau: It’s a hanfu for boys. Trust me. You’d look so good
Seb: You would, my lord
Ciel: *turns to Seb* Tell me honestly. Is it for boys?
Seb: *sobbing because he can’t lie* No, my lord….
i have yet to find an adhd trick for getting around executive dysfunction that works for me because every single one just makes me go "okay but i could also NOT do that"
If you have to constantly remind everyone that you're normal fan of evil ass rape game and call every other fan weird then you aren't a normal fan. You're an insecure poser who is desperate for affirmation.
"As a victim, I think they shouldn't cope with dark fiction. Instead-"
You still don't have the right to tell other victims how to cope. no matter how similar your story may be, it's never the same. Everyone processes trauma differently and some have it worse then you.
Some victims genuinely believe that, because you were both violated, that means you must share the same trauma responses and coping mechanisms and I'm sorry but it's incredibly self-centered. “Well, I'M a victim and I'd NEVER do that.” Okay, and that's your experience. Not mine.