If you are a good woman, humble and sweet, the devil will come after you through people. He'll lead them to treat you wrong for no reason at all in an attempt to make you hard and rough. He wants to take away that sweet and humble spirit you have. But don't let them do that.
Women lose sexual interest when they're emotionally disappointed, and I’m not going to argue about that. A woman can love you deeply, stay loyal, support you through hard times, and still slowly disconnect the moment she feels unheard, unappreciated, or emotionally neglected. Most people think attraction disappears because of looks, time, or routine, but emotional disappointment is what quietly changes everything.
Girls, please PICK THE GENTLE ONE. The kind one. The one who brings you peace. The protective one. The one who is sure of you. The one who respects you. The one who understands your silence. The one who sees your heart without judgement. The one who holds your dreams with care.
nobody talks about how exhausting it is to live in that space between “things will get better” and “i can’t handle this anymore.” it’s like your emotions are constantly swinging, leaving you both hopeful and defeated in the same day
if love ever finds me again, may the universe let me meet someone who loves me as deep as i do. Someone who is never okay with hurting me. Someone who is loyal, kind & devoted. Someone who will never make me feel unwanted, someone who feels like home & also finds home in me.
Nobody tells you how hard it is to rewire your brain so you can allow amazing things to happen to you after so much trauma or hurt. Blessings exist, good people exist, a softer life exists. Let it happen.
Healthy men have glowing wives. Narcissistic men have worn down ones because one guards his woman's peace, the other deliberately poisons it. A healthy man understands that love is not about control, fear, or constant emotional battles. He creates a safe space where his partner feels valued, heard, respected, and supported. His presence brings comfort, not confusion. His words build her up instead of tearing her down, and his actions consistently match what he promises.
I think one of the healthiest things a person can do is become easy to delight. To still stop for weird clouds and dogs wearing bandanas and the smell of garlic cooking somewhere down the street. The world already has enough cynicism. Be the person who still points at the moon.
I’m at that weird age where every younger person I meet makes me realize how much l've aged, and every older person I meet makes me realize I'm still a baby.
I used to think having common interests was one of the most important parts of a relationship. Now, I think what matters more is being aligned in the ways that truly shape a life together how kind you are, how you treat the people you love, how you treat strangers, how you handle anger, disappointment, and pain. It’s not about reacting to everything the exact same way. It’s about understanding each other well enough to know what a situation calls for, and sharing similar values about how to respond. That kind of understanding, that kind of synchrony, feels far more important to me than liking the same things.