To Men out there,
Dont outrage about things Women are writing today. It is not a random outburst. It is the lava boiling for years, unable to be contained within now. Listen, support or just be silent.Don't explain with counter argument. Its time we just listen & introspect. 🙏
Not all men are rapists
but 99.9% rapists are men
100% of the women face some perverted touch or gaze in their daily life.
99.9% of the victims of sexual assault are always women.
So yeah, not all men are rapists, but all rapists are almost always a man.
To all the men out there, I urge you: Do not engage in debates with women on social media when they are expressing their anger over the recent horrific incident in Bengal. Their words are not just a reaction to this tragedy; they are the outpouring of years of pain, frustration, and fear born from personal experiences with toxic men-men who harassed & assaulted them, who made them feel uncomfortable, who objectified them since childhood. There are experiences they never shared even with their parents, this burning anger is not merely a reaction but a response to the lifelong burden they've carried.
As men, we can never fully understand what they have endured. No matter how hard we try, we cannot measure the depths of their suffering.
Right now, in this moment of grief and outrage, what women need is not debate but mutual support. They need support from every community to ensure that justice is served for their sister who was brutally murdered by some of those "men."
This is not the time to argue or to defend; it is the time to listen. If you cannot offer comfort or understanding, at the very least, offer your silence.
Do not become another obstacle in their fight against the evils of our society. Instead, stand with them, listen to them, and let your actions reflect the justice and respect that all women deserve.
Better take care of yourself, your sisters, your mothers and loved ones.