Bakhuluma Kabi Ngawe Or Bangakufiseli Okuhle🤧, Sibuye Kuwe To Inform You, And You'll Start To Notice The Red Flags🚩. This Is The Reason Why You'll Get Irritated When You Have To Hang Out With Those People Or That Person, Because You Can Read Their Aura And You Hardly Connect
The best discernment advice I can give anyone is to always appear useless, resourceless, and naive. You need to see how people would treat you when they perceive they have an upper hand or view you as vulnerable. 99% of people blow it every time and you have to make them eat that
Do not let the illusion of urgency in this world deceive you. Slowness is sacred, and honoring your own pace is medicine. There is no rush to arrive. Take your time and allow life to meet you wherever you are.
Here goes!
1. Don’t embarrass me in public then try and love me louder in private. Fix your behaviour, not your image.
2. Akho “she’s just a friend I’ve known forever” situations. Boundaries must be visible.
3. If going out is part of your personality, we are not compatible. Home must also be somewhere you want to be.
4. Don’t flirt for entertainment.
5. Don’t tell me how “crazy” your exes were. This is not a character investigation.
6. If everyone you’ve dated still has access to you… remove me from your list too.
7. I don’t want to compete. Not with friends, exes, coworkers, or your phone.
8. Don’t speak to me disrespectfully then expect softness from me after. Tone matters so much. I’ll hear it.
9. If you move funny when I’m not around… I move permanently.
10. Don’t be secretive and call it “privacy.” Be direct about which one you mean.
11. Being generous is a mindset. Stinginess in effort, time, or care is a MAJOR deal breaker.
12. Don’t involve outsiders in our business. Our relationship will not be a group project.
13. If you make me question where I stand with you more than once… I’ll stand somewhere else.
14. Don’t try and humble me, control me, or “teach me a lesson.” I am not a life curriculum.
15. Finally, please don’t make promises you plan to outgrow. Being silent is FREE.
Finally women are being studied and now we are finding out that the women (egg )doesn't really have a biological clock it's the men who do...... Quality of a man's sperm is responsible for most miscarriages. Over time, The egg quality remains the same but quantity drops, but for a man (sperms) quality drops and quantity remains the same!....wheww
The lie is thinking if someone studies you close enough, they’ll earn you. But the most seductive thing a person can do is study their own ego & challenge it when it tries to protect them by pushing you away. Real lovers learn their own patterns so they don’t harm you.
We are overstimulated and we don't even notice. Netflix while eating. Reels in the bathroom. Music while cooking. Podcasts on walks. We consume by default, not by intention. You keep filling every gap, then wonder why you feel foggy and unmotivated.
Boredom and silence are the real growth drivers. They give you space to think and create. That's when solutions show up for problems that have been stuck for months. Leave some room.
I’m growing to realize I don’t wanna be anywhere God isn’t. I can’t afford to make the same mistakes I use to. I can’t afford to react the way I use to. I can’t afford to keep straying away from God like I use to. Nothing is worth not being where God is.
Having a naturally intimidating aura is so exhausting. People will go to the wildest extremes to humble you or compete with you. Meanwhile, you’re literally just trying to exist.
1. Our skeletons are wet.
2. your nose is ALWAYS in your line of sight, but your brain ignores it
3. When you receive a donated kidney, they don’t take out the bad one. They just add the good one in.
4. Your immune system doesn't know you have eyes. Otherwise, it would attack them and make you blind. injuring one eye can introduce eye bits to the bloodstream and basically give your immune system the knowledge of having eyes. then it might decide it really fucking hates that and attack your non-injured eye.
5. The quality of the male sperm is responsible for morning sickness, preeclampsia, baby’s gender and almost every single pregnancy related issue.
6. You breathe through one nostril at a time. Don’t believe me? Put your finger below your nose and try.
7. The brain itself has no nerve endings, so it can’t feel pain. That’s why patients can be wide awake during brain surgery and made to perform certain actions.
8. That ringing in silence isn’t silence
When everything is quiet and you hear a faint ringing?
That’s your brain listening to its own nervous system.
You are hearing yourself functioning.
9. You will never experience your own death.
You only experience approaching it… Then nothing.
Everyone else gets closure, stories, funerals, and memories.
You don’t.
You never know you’ve become a memory.
From your perspective, the story just stops mid-sentence.
Whenever something needs to be revealed to me, it will be revealed to me. I've never needed to go in search. I never need to sneak, snoop, or investigate. I will never resonate with or understand a monitoring spirit. It's top ten weirdo behavior. I just wasn't raised like that.