a while ago, i consciously worked on being non-avoidant and communicating better. my conclusion however is: stay avoidant. no let anybody put you for talk.
Not even to sound like a man-hater but this is so true; when they’ve established that they can’t outsmart you because you DO in fact know what you’re talking about - some (if not most) men will usually just be there to anger you. Such pricks man 😂
I don’t like arguing with men because they usually don’t have anything of value to add to a conversation. They just enjoy rage beating you to siphon your energy.