Agradécele a la persona que escuche toda tu historia, te valide y te entienda como eres. Pero quédate con quien te impulse a mejorar y que te haga entender que aún estás a tiempo de seguir escribiéndola con otra perspectiva y que puedes crecer de tus dolores. ❤️🩹
8. They did not know how to repair.
In relationships we will hurt people, and people will hurt us. Repair is the act of apologizing, listening (even when it’s hard), and promising to do better. Instead of repair, there was defensiveness & deflection.
3. They never fought.
This usually came from one partner avoiding or suppressing their issues. When one partner would finally reach a boiling point, the other partner would be confused because they seemingly never disagreed.