It is funny how dudes genuinely believe this from a conceptual POV
In reality people have no idea what you make, what your house or apartment looks like, or what you do. Even if you are pulling monstrous dollars, 99% of people aren't seeing your car/crib or are going to be able to discern what "i run a marketing agency" actually means. 99% can't discern anything anyway. So even if you have all 'the stuff' - basically nobody will see it, nobody cares, and it often has 'inverse effect' where people who you wouldn't care about liking you will like you - and everyone "real" that has capacity to discern character can see through it all anyway. Are you competent, are you reliable, are you trustworthy, do you have good energy, can you tolerate/handle truth, have you shedded delusions enough to see clearly, are you on your mission. That's the game.
All other stuff is completely fake. none of it is real. What's real is your character, your essence, how you manage your energy & yourself, who YOU are
If you're worried about WHAT OTHER PEOPLE THINK ABOUT YOU or WHAT THEY CARE ABOUT YOU HAVING, you are perma-cucked
game of 1
Coming home to be greeted by the gem of your life, your one and only cheerleader.
Suddenly, 18 hours of labour won’t feel like anything at all, I guess.