PSA: YOUR KIDS COME FIRST!βΌοΈβΌοΈβΌοΈβΌοΈThey come before your Bf/Gf . They come before your friends. They come before partying. They come before drugs/alcohol. They come before your job. They come before money. They come before your car. They come before your own selfish wants, needs, desires, dreams. THEY COME FIRST POINT BLANK PERIOD!
When in a relationship understand that you were both raised differently, which means you love differently, react differently and communicate differently, the important part is that you both respect each other's differences and try to understand where one another is coming from.
ainβt enough money in the world that can make me have another kid. yes, I have my moments I reminisce and even have baby fever from time to time but FUCK NO!!
Clarifying things so the other person doesn't overthink is also a form of emotional responsibility. Reassurance is a love language that doesn't get talked about enough.
girl to girl: it's okay to be alone. it's okay to have a dry phone. it's okay to be celibate. it's okay to be selfish. it's okay to have high standards. your peace, your pace, your rules