The fastest way to detach from a person that you genuinely wanted in your life so badly is to:
let them do what they want, so you can see what they would rather do. If they want to lose you, let them. If they choose someone else, let them. The heartbreak of them confirming your feelings is so much better than letting them drain your life force energy any longer.
Men think and feel very deeply. They just experience it differently than women and hide it behind many layers.
This is likely the most vulnerable and nostalgic this man has been with his wife for a long time and the "we're done" said more than just the one conversation but a resolve to not let her in to that level of trust with his emotions again. This broke my heart to watch.
One of the most dangerous things in the world is not being able to say no to people because you don't want to upset them or dissapoint them. This will completely ruin your life in every way possible, at work, in your private life, your sex life and your friendships. It's a way of removing your own consent in your own decisions and go against your wishes, it is always a crime against yourself. Let yourself have a say. Upsetting people is better than traumatizing yourself.
I was today years old when I learned
If you feel it in your chest, it's fear
If you feel it in your stomach, it's intuition
If you feel it in your head, it's anger If you feel it in your muscles, it's anxiety
If you feel it in your mouth, it's disgust
If vou feel it in vour throat, it's sad sadness.
If you feel it in your face, it's shame.
If you feel it throughout your body, it's happiness
IN 2018 A MAN WHO CALLED HIMSELF NOAH SAT DOWN IN FRONT OF A CAMERA AND TOLD AN ENTIRE COUNTRY WHAT WAS COMING.
He didn't say he predicted it.
He said he had been there.
He described the Philippines decades from now. The skyline. The coastlines that move. The cities that grow and the ones the water takes back.
Then he did something stranger.
He showed them footage he claimed had been recorded on the other side of time. Grainy. Impossible to verify. Impossible to fully dismiss.
The interview ran barely six minutes.
A million and a half people have watched it since.
Seven years later they're still going back to it, line by line, checking which parts of his list have quietly started to come true.
Bad Money Management but if you lose your job an unpaid car is repossessed but an unpaid unsecured loan just stays on your credit record for a few years.
The February budget quietly handed every South African more room to pay less tax this year, and most people haven't even noticed the changes yet.
Retirement annuity: you can now deduct 27.5% of your income up to R430,000 a year, up from R350,000. That's an extra R80,000 of contributions SARS will let you write off.
TFSA: the annual limit jumped from R36,000 to R46,000.
Every rand that grows inside it, interest, dividends, capital gains, is never taxed. Not now, not later.
Capital gains: sell shares or a second property and the first R50,000 of profit each year is exempt, up from R40,000. Selling your primary home, the exclusion is now R3 million, up from R2 million.
Medical aid credit: R376 a month for you and your first dependant, R254 for every dependant after that, coming off your tax automatically if it runs through payroll.
Interest income: the first R23,800 a year is tax free if you're under 65, R34,500 if you're older.
Donate to a registered PBO and you can still claim back up to 10% of your taxable income.
None of this needs a clever accountant or an offshore structure. It's Treasury literally handing you more room and hoping you don't ask for it.
Which of these were you not using before today?
there is no successful man in this world with influence who is not paying allegiance to a spirit
pay solid attention;
elon musk, the richest man in the world, born in south africa and naturalized as an american citizen. there is a spirit behind his success, there is a spirit he is paying allegiance to, that is why he continues to rise and maintain his position as the richest man in the world. there is a spirit behind him, whether divine or diabolic.
99.9% of names in forbes list, there are spirits they pay allegiance to, a spirit behind their prosperity, whether demonic, diabolic or divine.
you can never rise to great influence without paying allegiance to a spirit, it's not possible.
if you cannot beat them, you do what? you join them. forget those people who say, africa is always talking about spirits. they are simply foolish. a fool at 40 is a fool forever. go to china and you will find that most people have their own gods. if you enter some companies, you will see idols displayed openly in their offices. go to india, and you will see similar things. they are not hiding them, these spirits work for them.
there is no way you can rise to influence without paying allegiance to a spirit and if you are paying allegiance to a spirit, whether divine or diabolic, there are places you cannot go, things you cannot eat, women whom you should not have sex with, and places where you cannot be seen. every spirit you are paying allegiance to comes with rules that govern that altar.
even divine spirits have rules and regulations, the likes of ten commandments etc
diabolic spirits also have their own rules and regulations. i, sir chris, ceo of eagles eye incorporated, i am paying allegiance to a spirit and that is the spirit that makes my company prosper and grow at God's speed.
the harsh truth is, if you’re not paying allegiance to any spirit either divine or demonic, you will not remain at the top and you can never overcome those whose strength comes from the spirits they serve.
the spiritual controls the physical.
I just read the 70 page manifesto of @Action4SA , I was so close to being deceived, I nearly shared my vote with them.
On page 28-29, it reads “Action SA will repeal BBBEE and replace with it with an inclusive EE framework that focuses on equality of opportunity rather than compliance-driven racial outcomes”
So for starters, I don’t think @Action4SA knows what BBBEE is and secondly, I don’t think they are well informed on the inequalities in the country.
@GaytonMcK was right…
@Action4SA is actually more dangerous than the DA, their policies are not too far from the @Our_DA
Guys the whole relationship stuffs going on nowadays be really scary, especially the long distant ones
😔💔💔
In the middle of April my friend's girlfriend came over to visit him spending up to three weeks at his crib they had fun, went shopping spent effortlessly on this girl, clothes dinner dates, junk meals name it just because he believed he alone was the one dating her and was planning to propose to her..............
TSU SURF just apologized for leaving battle rap in the hands of the GOOFIES 😳🔥
“My fault y’all got left with the defaults…”
This wasn’t just jokes — Surf took a direct shot at who’s been carrying the culture while he was gone.
FULL VIDEO: https://t.co/EGfKEJ73BI
Free things for Birthday
Gold Reef City: Free entry on your birthday (or Sunday before/after if closed).
Harties Cableway: Free ride on your birthday.
Lion & Safari Park: Free one-hour guided tour/self-drive.
City Sightseeing Bus: Free ticket for children 4-17 (and one for a friend).
Bothongo Rhino and Lion Nature Reserve: Free self-drive entry on the day.
Total Ninja: Free 1-hour session on your birthday (Stoneridge).
Mugg & Bean: Free slice of cake or sweet treat (requires app).
Kauai: Free small smoothie (requires app).
Starbucks SA: Free drink for Gold Level loyalty members.
Krispy Kreme: Buy-one-get-one-free dozen doughnuts (app).
Spur Steak Ranches: Free meal and ice cream for kids (loyalty card), and a free ice cream/song for adults.
RocoMamas: R50 voucher (loyalty app).
Piza e Vino: R100 voucher in your birthday month.
Doppio Zero: R100 voucher and free wine for large bookings.
Debonairs Pizza: R50 voucher (app).
Cape Town Fish Market: R150 discount in your birthday month
Ster-Kinekor: Free movie ticket