Women are actually extremely bad at accurately gauging risk. They feel "unsafe" in situations where no danger exists and they're utterly oblivious when they're in mortal danger. I've literally never seen a woman make an accurate risk assessment in my life. And I'm pretty old.
Your spiritual rank is so high that you don't need to seek revenge or prove a point. Keep your heart pure, let people reveal who they are, and let life handle the rest.