bullying has never been and will never be a flex. it is just a person who cannot manage their own pain deciding to distribute it to people who did not ask for it. top tier loser behavior from start to finish.
a lot of people use shame to self talk and that's why we see a lot of "if u do this and ur this age that's embarrassing" and it's because they are not free themselves, what is embarrassing is the own cage u built around u
i regret to inform you that personal growth rarely comes from acquiring new knowledge and almost always from:
- getting humiliated
- showing up terrified and doing it anyway
- admitting you might be the problem
If you have a disability, an illness, a health condition you truly learn how evil most people are. You will be abandoned, mocked and degraded then left at the margins trying to assemble some sort of life while people look down on you. It’s a pervasive issue.
It’s crazy how most people use their 20s to build a career, but if you grew up in chaos, you basically spend those years just trying to survive the aftermath of your upbringing. It's like you're not even at the starting line yet bc you’re still repairing the track.