TO AVOID EMBARRASSMENT AND UNNECESSARY PRESSURE IN LIFE.
1. Put your kids in
schools you can afford
because expensive
schools don't
guarantee good
results. Just ensure
they attend a good
affordable school
2. Rent apartments you
can pay for
conveniently.
I discourage all my patients with chronic metabolic diseases (diabetes, hypertension, cancers) from eating tomatoes, onions, kales, and spinach, especially when they are bought from supermarkets and open-air markets.
Tomatoes and Irish potatoes are worse.
Avoid them.
Dialysis is very expensive.
The money spent.
The hours spent.
The toll on a family's resources.
Yet, you can avoid going that route by eating a healthy diet and living a healthy life.
But you don't listen until it is you or your parent as the next patient in the renal ward.
Fredrick Nietzsche wrote a lot about man and his desires, shadows and dreams.
He also wrote about PLEASURE.
However, he did not tell men to kill their desires. He told them to command them.
A drive you cannot control does not stay quiet. It grows, it takes the throne, and soon it will be giving you orders while you obey.
Lust and greed promise you power and hand you a leash into slavery. Example:
• Prostitution
• Porn
• Masturbation
Every man ruled by his appetites is owned by whoever controls them.
Nietzsche called the highest act self-overcoming: the man who masters himself is the only one no one else can master.
Rule the pleasure, or the pleasure will rule you.
#BetterTogether
One of the most underrated skills in motor vehicle mechanics is being a Tyre Technician.
A tyre technician is more than someone who changes tyres.
He solves one of the most important problems in transport which is keeping vehicles safe and moving.
• He repairs punctures.
• He replaces worn tyres.
• He balances wheels.
• He checks tyre pressure.
He identifies uneven tyre wear.
• He advises motorists when tyres need replacement.
His work reduces accidents, improves fuel efficiency, extends tyre life, and prevents costly breakdowns.
They don't believe it.
The corrupt dairy industry, in pursuit of profit, misled them into believing that raw milk causes anthrax and other ailments.
Yet, their newborns sulk raw milk, and calves suck raw milk.
Educated fools.
Even if you remain alone, the VISION is yours.
Even if nobody believes in you, the vision is yours.
Believe in it.
Believe in yourself.
One day,
those who doubted you,
those who ignored you,
those who abandoned you,
Will beg to be part of your success.
Politicians steal your resources. The church steals your brain.
The church is worse.
Politicians in bed with the church is disastrous.
They steal your resources, and they all blame you for not tithing enough.
Then you accept it as the truth.
It is easy to blame your:
• Childhood
• Parents
• Tribe
• Government
It is much harder to accept responsibility for your own decisions.
The day a man stops looking for someone else to blame is the day he begins taking control of his life.
#ManDay
Reminder:
Avoid fluoridated toothpaste.
Fluoride is not a nutritional necessity,
Fluoride does not strengthen teeth,
Fluoride is not a nutritional need for oral health.
Fluoride is a toxic industrial waste sold to you because of aggressive, deceptive marketing.
If you are planning to build a house in your rural village,
Do the following:
• Open a bank account. Call it "Project Development Account 2026."
• Write a plan. Use the Triple Constraint Theory in Project Management: BUDGET, TIME and SCOPE.
• Save 50% equivalent of your rent in the account, monthly for 15 months, eg, if your rent is 10,000, then, save 5,000 in that account every month.
• If you can't raise 50% equivalent of your rent to save, then you are living beyond your means. Look for a cheaper house.
• Get an architect and a draughtsman to design a house.
• Do research, consult, read about building and construction online. Travel beyond your comfort.
• Get a Quantity Surveyor to do feasibility and the cost of the project.
• At month 15, draw a budget and begin buying material for construction, eg Sand, Ballast, Stones and timber. Stick to the budget.
• At month 18, start building.
• Get a professional mason licensed by the National Construction Authority. Be present. Supervision by phone calls is disastrous.
• Be hands-on. Learn to do the masonry work alongside the mason. Mix the ballast. Lay the bricks. Be part of the team.
• Create a rapport and good relationship with a hardware. Let this hardware be the only place you will buy construction material.
• Don't live in government houses. Don't buy the so called "affordable houses."
Build your house, to your preference and taste.
Therefore, if you are intending to build, and you start planning today, then you should be building your house in 2026 March.
It is not far.
Start today.
Be patient.
Start.
#BetterTogether
Men,
Behind these gated homes are frustrated men.
Every morning you will meet them smiling inside their SUVs.
In the evening, they sit in their SUVs till late at night before sneaking into the house to warm their food and sleep like vagabonds.
Inside these gated houses are men in pain,
Men who wash their clothes, cook their food and live like pariahs.
Inside these gated houses are men who made wrong choices and ended up bearing the burden of the consequences.
Inside these gated houses, are tears, pain, regrets and frustrations.
Don't be gated. Remain WALLED.
Be the WALL!
#MasculinitySaturday
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3 days ago, I wrote a post about the dejection I observe in men each morning they leave their houses for work.
Today, I was just tagged in a story about a pilot who was disinherited by his ex-wife.
Despite putting so much effort into his marriage, being there for his family, and bequeathing his wealth to them, he has lost everything.
He is now homeless.
3 years ago, when I wrote here on X that a man must build his private citadel where he can disappear silently and secretly to find solitude and singularity, I was trolled, mocked, insulted, and berated for encouraging men to abandon their wives.
Here is the thing,
Nobody cares about you, the man.
Not even me, Amerix.
The only person who cares for you is YOU.
You either bite the bullet and start building your retirement bunker, or continue neglecting yourself and suffer the consequences of your ignorance.
#MasculinitySaturday
Modern colleges and Universities are nowadays feminised. From lessons to lectures to events.
They spend their resources promoting feminism, gender wokeism, and regurgitating liberal talking points at the expense of creating local solutions for our Afrikan problems.
There is no more room for the boy-child to express his manliness, creativity and authenticity.
This is why more young men are opting to pursue vocational trade craft courses eg:
• Farming, carpentry, masonry, electrical, plumbing, tiling, welding, HVAC
• Machinists, blacksmiths, automotive technicians
• Jewellery, Pottery, leatherworks, Ceramics
• Tailoring, seamstressy, upholstery
Because that is where they can freely express their creativity without being reprimanded.
These craft courses have been ignored because the gynocentric logic considers them menial, dirty and low-value, but that is where the future of manliness lies.
While modern higher education courses focus on grades, craft courses focus on credible results and solutions, e.g., a chair, a working bulb, a strong roof, a strong window grill, a smoothly painted wall, a seamless data-analysis mobile tool and a well-tiled floor.
The future of the man lies in vocational trade crafts.