We need to discuss something...
So, for the past 6 years, people have been calling me Bowman (my last name)
This, wasn't really my choice. It was, subsequently, what a friend that I no longer associate with called me after digging, and it stuck after and I kinda was forced to adopt it.
After Megaplex, I am going to ask people to stray away from calling me Bowman. Silver is what I originally wanted. The reason why I didn't do this earlier, with my handles, was due to fear of impersonation.
This, doesn't seem to be an issue now.
I thank you all for the cooperation.
I donโt know about you, but, Iโve seen a lot of creative people, some with backstories, some without. That are horndogs. Iโve seen bland af people be total douches around others too. Iโve seen people with really good creative skills do the same. And ive seen a lot of bland sonas be good people as well, alongside people creative backstories.
The bias youโre making here is that creativity somehow gives a better portion of people a good chance of being more โenjoyable.โ (Define what that means too, please, in this context. Like, enjoyable as in being a good person? Enjoyable as in fun to be around? There are many ways to interpret that, you havent gave me much). Lots of people are creative. But im sure youโve met a few people you dont like who have a backstory too. If not, that could be the driving you to your opinion. This could be flipped for others, its all experience. Though, the replies are obviously going to bring more like minded people more than the latter.
On the flipside, sometimes you find youโre missing a huge chunk of people that still do creative things outside of the fandom, or other ways, that isnโt a focus on their own OCs. Its more preference and comfortability than it is a personality or habitual issue. I do creative writing, modelling, and a learning animation, fursuit making. But, my sona is kinda just me but white haired and a wolf hyena and smaller. And,
I dont have a backstory. I, just dont really feel like giving him one. I dont think thats how i approached the fandom. Given, that may change if i am more comfortable. But, i am really finnicky with ERP too.
@FoxSoyuz Thatโs a mood. Really sorry people are doing that to you. Iโve had that happen a few times myself. I was happy in the end they found people they like. But it hurt here too
Out of all the things to be sensitive about. Why yes, having friends.
Ngl this works both ways. People who are jealous about others friends need grass. Bad. On the polar, if people that are that low are causing you or your friends to give an extreme enough flying fuck about posting pictures, which i always assumed was for sharing memoir of your group for fun or for the sake of it, then you really need to rethink why you are posting/taking them in the first place. Iโm confused on why you let any take that clearly is from a down-up mindset get to you if the end goal was to have fun or share a good time.