Date somebody who actually wants to experience LIFE with you. Not just dinner and sex. Museums, cooking classes, festivals, pottery, concerts, bookstores, road trips, EVERYTHING .
choose a man who calls you after an argument just to make sure you're okay, not someone who leaves you alone with your thoughts while you cry. choose the one who wants to fix things, not win them. the one who stays, listens, and talks things through even when it's hard. someone who cares more about your feelings than his pride. because healthy love is not about never arguing. it's about knowing that even in the middle of a disagreement, you still matter to each other.
I pray I marry a man who actually wants to be married. A man who isn't out here embarrassing the family we created.. I pray I marry an honest, hardworking, loving man. I pray he has morals, goals, and boundaries.
if u offer me a sincere apology & change ur behavior, I'll never bring up our past issues again. But if no apology was given and ur still repeating mistakes, u can't ask me to stop mentioning the past. The "past" is actually the present if u haven't changed.
men ever sit & think, Damn she’s doing everything to keep me in her life in a generation where most people don’t even try. She forgives me every time. She gives me chance after chance. She still chooses me hoping I’ll change even when I mess up & here I am taking her for granted.
Y'all listen to this. My coworker accidentally took the house keys with her on a girls' night. Her husband gets off work completely locked out. Instead of blowing up her phone, he calls her an hour later just to make sure she arrived safely. He didn't raise his voice once. He just goes "Honey, there's a slight problem... you took the keys! I'm at a friend's house, so don't even worry. Hit me up when you're free, I'll pick you up. Enjoy your night, I love you." 😭 Ladies, this is why you always choose a man who is calm and gentle!