Yeah very unfortunate, but what I believe is that expectations breed disappointment. And that a giving hand will more often be regarded as incapable of receiving by the person used to receiving from it, as they are accustomed to receiving and not giving back. Just know that kindness is random, not reciprocal.
@Amma__tuuh Even rocks change shape with the passing of time. The mind and our plans are also susceptible to the whirlwind of change in the future as circumstances sometimes demand change. You can only feel aggrieved when you donโt accept that change is a constant quotient of life.
You can still pursue your dreams and purpose but still want to express how much you hold her in high regard. Still the confusion will mare your life. I tend to think itโs the thrill of fear of losing. Being on edge, gives them that jolt that you are valuable. For example, FOMO, works best against girls as the thought of the product running out causes panic purchase.
But why, why would someone just state that they marry for survival or that they are settling?
Someone literally hit on you, you went on dates, your girlfriends approved of him in your caucusโs, blessings were asked of the parents and you announced your nuptials to the world, then you come and state it was all for survival and settling. Make it make sense please.๐ค
@Hilenceee Break up and bereavement are sisters. The difficulty of letting go and the eventual portion of grief is dependent on how much you loved the person.
@An0rexik Could be. A friend of mine blocked and deleted an exโs number who had moved on, not because he had ill intentions but because he wanted to prevent himself from ever trying to engage her again.
@artfuIchaos So true. Given that character is inherent, it is possible to assume that it is not visible despite the fact that it leaves a lasting impression and lingers like a potent smell once the facade is unraveled.
@OhajiemoU85445 Paradox of life, most oftentimes people run to people who love them when life is hard on their part, and then run to people they love when life feels gleeful.
@ItsAllek Love is a language, only those who understand your dialect will appreciate you. Before you speak make sure your target audience can read your tongue.